A rich show biz man has written to relationship expert Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah anchor of iRelationship make or mar, lamenting the humiliation he goes through in the hands of his wife anytime he wants to make love to her, he claims she charges a hundred thousand for a single round of sexual intercourse.
See his narrative below.
The kind of mess i have found myself in would take a generation for it to be settled.
I have never known that a man can trap himself just like the unfortunate episode I am currently entrapped in.
I have become a slave in my own house to my wife, for two years ongoing I have been paying my wife 100k to sleep with her per night.
I met my wife Bukky three years ago in Suleja she was then working as an intern in an agency located in Suleja.
As a consultant and entertainer extraordinaire I was used to getting things done with hype. Having big clients and spending free nights in the choicest hotels across Nigeria made me superb. My PR services were self bloated and I became obsessed in a fake life.
When I met Bukky at the office of a top-notch client at Suleja I knew it was love at first sight. Bukky had all it is a man crave for in a woman, beautiful brown skin with a curvaceous body. She is an epitome of beauty.
I made enquires and found out she was a mistress to that Oga I went to visit and she normally travels with him on his business journeys overseas.
My client is actually the CEO of one of the cutest hotel in Abuja and owns a tank farm as well.
I never knew what came over me to say it was Bukky of all girls I want.
Anyway i gave it my shot, i decided to deploy my hype skills in my love chase. I made moves towards her and invited her to a first-class event in Port Harcourt that weekend which I was promoting.
I got her first-class ticket and made preparations for accommodation at one of the most luxurious hotels which I also promote. Actually, as an A list marketer, i have access to countless relaxation and clubhouses who are all eager and excited to host me.
I decided to deploy all these my magic wand to play and made a good show of myself. Every A list event I was promoting i started attending with Bukky , within 3 months we had attended about 25 a list event. She was always given the red carpet treatment,i made her look like a queen which she was to me.
All this while I had not made love to Bukky she made it clear that she was in love with me and ready to even marry me but she never makes love without a price.
We always joked about this and I felt she was just trying to march me heavy bills in advance. So I said well let me show her how romantic I was and spoil her a little.
Bukky no doubt was in love with me and stopped all trips alongside her sugar daddy and concentrated on our relationship.
She at a time became my manager making my bookings and event planning much easier.
The first day I made love to Bukky I gave her a million naira and this was after three months of dating. Bukky made it clear to me that night she was going to collect money from me if we must make love, in my mind I was like Bukky is worth more than a million.
All this while we were dating she never asked me for a penny and I never gave her.
So that night at the usual prestigious hotel I lodged I offered her a million bucks and made the transfer to her before we started our lovemaking session.
Since then anytime I want to make love to her she must demand a fee and i would eagerly pay saying, after all, I do not pay her for managing my affairs.
I felt it was compensation for her selfless service towards my business.
We continued like this till we got married and now for two years, ongoing I have been paying my wife 100k to sleep with her.
She says that is a flat rate since we were married if I have to sleep with my wife 10 times a month that is a million naira. Now i can’t even afford to sleep with her more than once and she must insist on that fee.
I have tried to get an explanation for this weird and destructive character but she has never opened up to me. She manages my finances so well that even if I have to seek for a divorce I would even be grateful to pay her bills as my manager.
What should i do ? can I continue to pay my wife a hundred thousand because I have to make love? please do advise me on what next to do.
I am considering divorce as an option too.