‘Is it possible for me to marry my late husband friend. He his not based in Nigeria he came back and tried locating my husband and he was told that he is dead he reached out to me and my son and since then he has been wonderful. My husband died 5years ago and this man has been in our life for 2 years.
He has been paying my son school fees, opened a shop for me because I was a housewife, he stocked the shop. This man sister brings foodstuff to my house once a month that is what she sells so he pays her to bring it. I am using my husband old car, this man pays for the maintenance. Do you know that with this fuel scarcity I had 3 25litres of fuel in my house courtesy this man? He gives me monthly allowances for my son… And then on new year eve, he told me on the phone that he wants to marry me. He is also divorced with two daughters who live with the wife in U.
I have been thinking about it. My mother said she wants to pray and speak to her pastor his younger sister said I should go ahead. My late husband family is not even really close to us. Since he died they have only been here twice to see my son. I also like this man. He as moved to Nigeria finally but he travels three times for his children what should I do. I am praying also he is not here in Lagos he is based in Abuja so if I marry him I will relocate even with the distance we talk often we have never kissed.
My husband properties (2lands in his state) are in my son’s name so I’m keeping it for him. we have been living with the house rent I get from a flat my husband built but we couldn’t live there because of his work distance so it is that rent I use to pay for this place we live.
I used to bake at home but now I have a store where I sell ingredients for baking, cake and drinks courtesy him. My pastor told me during Easter last year that if I have a chance to start a new life I should take the chance but how would I know if this is what he means. I am confused.