Expensive dates should never sweep you off your feet, but sadly this is one of the things which makes some ladies fall so deep in a madness called Love.
Why don’t you need an expensive date? The simple answer is because you are expensive; infact you are priceless and can never be bought. It’s an insult to be impressed with food, drink and treats in the aid of winning your love.
The only one someone can impress using expensive dates is a cheap person. Because they don’t have money to afford it, they think this is the right avenue to cash in. Some will go to the extent of making unnecessary requests and demands. They end up even requesting for extra food and drinks to take home. It’s just bad.
If you have money to afford your own food, drink, etc. you won’t allow anyone to impress you with that. Men who go out and your dates or girlfriends want everything on the menu or everything they see, should be able to tell the quality of the woman they are taking home as wives.
A cheap girl will pretend to be expensive, charter a taxi whenever they have to visit, while you foot the bills on her arrival; meanwhile on her daily routine she uses public transport.
Ladies going out on dates, if you are looking for a lasting marriage the way your man spends on you should be your major concern. Where are they getting the money from? What is their source of income, how do they live their lives in terms of spending. Are they living a borrowed life or spending monies they don’t earn?
What are their long terms goals, future projects, the kind of family they want to have, the number of children, etc.
There are things that once you begin, you can’t stop; if he has to begin with you on expensive dates and high spending then he is on the verge of losing the relationship if things go bad for him.
Even the richest country in the world once in a while experiences some hardships or economic difficulties, how much more your boyfriend?
5 Signs You’re With The Person You Should Marry
This checklist of positive signs will help you evaluate your date in a realistic manner.
He cares about what you think: A date who asks for and listens to your opinions and feelings, and better yet, who remembers what you say and builds on it later, and who responds with empathy, sincerity and caring, is someone you can communicate.
He can work things out with you: Recent research shows that the single most important quality that determines whether a relationship can succeed is how well the couple solves problems.
His modesty, humility and ego are balanced: If your date can keep success and failure in perspective, admit personal shortcomings, and rise above disappointments and losses, he or she does have a balanced personality.
He is emotionally mature: While it’s fun and charming to be able to be childlike when in a playful mood, it’s essential to be an adult whenever necessary
He is open: The whole point of dating, is to get to know each other. While you both may want to take a little time before disclosing too much, your date should be comfortable talking about him or herself, and it should not be like pulling teeth to find out what you need to know.
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