Popular Ghanaian counselor, Frank Adofoli has apportioned blame on some of the songs of the late dancehall artiste, Ebony Reigns like sponsor and date your fada.
According to him, songs like these influence the mindset of others like Moesha Boduong.
In the 21st century, it is really difficult being a woman, especially in our part of the world or society where women empowerment has equaled a woman cooking for a man or her husband to slavery; yet to the same women, giving themselves to men as sex toys for their needs is not slavery but Freedom. A freedom to live the life they wish, to live in the apartment of their dreams, to drive the ride they have long waited for.
We lived in a country where “sponsor” is a hit song, where “dating one’s father” is the favourite line of lyrics for some women. We live in a society where values, standards and morals mean nothing. We live in a society where we don’t respect the young women in the sun selling plantain chips in traffic. We live in a society where beauty is defined by how a woman exposes her body on social media.
Having one’s own husband is defined as having a slave master but being a mistress makes one a Boss Lady or Queen. That is how sick and confused our society and the women we are empowering are becoming.
Women don’t know how to be a woman any more. The very script they say they are flipping is worse than what existed in the past. In the past, women married for their needs. Women knew their place and role, same with men.
With this knowledge, they were able to live peacefully in marriage and they respected each other very well. The man got married to the woman because of his needs like, who to cook for him, who to have s*x with and who to keep the home and take care of his children.
Women got married to men who were hardworking and could give them a home, give them money for their needs, support them domestically. Expression of love was based on role and not feelings.
Today things have changed so much; most women are working and earning, so they obviously don’t get into marriage for such needs. In fact some women don’t even know the needs of the men in their lives because they have everything they would have asked from men except sex. So they decide to get men who will have sex with them, impregnate them and they can take care of their babies on their own.
Today, single motherhood is a lifestyle, not seen as a defect or the sign of a broken home as we knew in the past. There are other breeds of women who think having men as tools in their life for sexual needs will amount to the man controlling them, therefore they decide to venture into the business of lesbianism. Get a woman who is in the same position as she is to meet their sexual needs.
Whilst there are others who are so lazy, who had no proper upbringing, but think the only solution to get whatever they want in life is to look for men to whom they can sell themselves, to meet their needs.
Many of such women are in various relationships with single men and their requirements are for rent or accommodation, mobile phone/laptop, monthly allowance, car or money for daily transportation, etc. Since they are in just for their needs, these needs change or increase with time and when that happens, it means they have to change men because some men will not be able to meet their new set of needs.
Due to the pressure these demands put on their men, the single man tries to control and regulate them. They open bank accounts for the women to track how they use the money, they install software on their phones to monitor their movement, etc. Many of such relationships lead to abuse.
There is another breed who want total freedom, not a man who controls them or tries to regulate their movement; so the best men to go for is a married man who just needs company or a sexual partner for a short period and then retire to his wife and family.
This makes being a mistress the business for many lazy young women who are looking for easy ways in life. Being a mistress in Ghana has never been an issue of economy; it’s an issue of laziness, lack of good morals, proper parenting and upbringing.
Women and men have equal access to education in Ghana, women and men have same access to knowledge. Women and men have the same privilege to become entrepreneurs. Women and men have equal access to job openings.
The Ghana economy does not make landlords charge women more for rent or accommodation than men. They all go through the same requirements. It is therefore misleading for Moesha to tell Christina Amanpour of CNN that “Ghana, our economy is such that you need someone to take care of you because you can’t make enough money as a woman”.
Do You Know Patapaa’s Girlfriend, Pata Pichy?
Patapaa has stated that reports that he was dating a girl called Pata Pichy were false. According to him, the whole idea of Pata Pichy was cooked up by bloggers. Patapaa also told Delay that he is his type of girl
‘One Corner’ hitmaker Patapaa has denied reports that he was in a relationship with a lady named Pata Pichy.
According to Patapaa, he is currently not dating anyone and the reports were fabrications form bloggers.
Reports emerged on social media about a month ago that Patapaa had found himself a very beautiful girlfriend.
The reports which had the photo of a good-looking girl claimed that the lady was called Pata Pichy.
But speaking in an interview on the Delay Show, Patapaa pointed out that the rumour mongers were only using his association with Shatta Wale and his baby mama, Shatta Michy to project the so-called Pata Pichy on him.
“The bloggers always say Shatta Wale is my father, therefore, they try to associate everything about me to him,” he said.
Explaining further, he stated the photo of the girl which were going rounds were from a video shoot for a collaboration he did with a Liberian artiste.
“I went to Liberia for a show….there is this artiste who wanted to feature me on his song so he hooked up immediately he heard I’m in town.
“After our recording then he said we should shoot the video for it because I might not come back again to Liberia when he is ready.
“He organised what will be needed for the shoot including the girls you saw me with on social media. I am not going out with any Pata Pichy,” Patapaa explained.
When Delay insisted that he mentions the girl warming his bed currently, a visibly uncomfortable Patapaa repeated that there is no one but he knows where to turn to when he feels horny.
“As an artiste or a footballer when you are on stage performing, you will definitely get a girl who will be interested to go to bed with you…so once there is a show I will get a girl,” Patapaa stated with excitement.
Patapaa, however, pointed out that considering his ‘tiny body’, it would be better if he got a very well endowed lady for a girlfriend.
And he looked no further than Delay herself saying she was his kind of girl.
Patapaa has been trending on social media since last Saturday’s Vodafone Ghana Music Awards (VGMAs).
His inability to win the ‘Most Popular Song of the Year’ award and his outbursts after the event has been one of the highly discussed issues in Ghana this week.
One actress named Xandy Kamel even offered to give Patapaa a good time in bed for him to keep quiet.
But it looks like Patapaa is more interested in ‘bigger’ fishes like Delay than Xandy.
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