Some people have gotten slapped while trying to transit from kissing to sex. It is either they either went about it the wrong way or their women were just not ready. Learn how to do it right with these 7 tips.
Some people may laugh at the title of this article, but Wha’anda knows one or two people who have gotten slapped when they tried to transit from kissing to sex.
Fact is, they got slapped because they either did it the wrong way or their women were just not ready for the next level.
Now, we all know that, when it comes to sex, most women like to play coy — some think it’s immodest to give in to sex easily.
So, many times, it all boils down to the guys’ coyness and many will attest to the frustration of ‘nearly getting laid’ only to be pushed off as things get steamy.
Anyway, if you’re a guy, these 7 tips will help you get there from kissing without being aggressive or offensive to your woman:
A smelly kiss will get you nothing but disdain. Brush your mouth well and maybe chew some mint or rinse with a mouthwash before trying the kiss! Everyone hates bad breath/mouth-odour. Even from a distance, it is a turn-off. Now, imagine having to deal with a mouth to mouth contact with all that stench! She will never allow you get down there unless hers is as smelly.
The ambience is as important as breathing. A soft-sweet setting is more likely to soften a woman’s resolve and let you beyond the kissing zone. Play soft, sensual music. It will relax her and maybe set-up the mood for something kinky and nasty. Some scented candles and dim lighting works too.
Slow and steady wins the race. Rushing will get you nowhere so go slow and steady. Also ensure that you don’t bite off her lips because you want sex. Be in control. Place soft kisses on her lips with about mili-seconds of ‘rest’.
Don’t be a sloppy slob, get creative. Spraying saliva on her face or getting glued to her lips is disgusting. Explore other erogenous zones. Make her feel like ice cream. Kiss her eyes, nose, nape, top of her breasts (not the breasts or nipples!), hands, behind her ears… anywhere and everywhere.
It’s more about loving her body than actual sex. You should not be too much in a hurry to put your hands into her skirt or grab her boobs, buttocks or vagina. Just keep placing soft kisses, trail your fingers on her body, whisper into her ears and act like you just want to worship her body.
Wait at the traffic light … GREEN is for “Go”. It is a fact that women take a little longer than men to get aroused, especially when you’re just trying to get together for the first time. So don’t jump the gun and spoil your progress. Take all the time to get her primed and she will give you the green light by making a move. The move might be eye-contact, a returned-kiss, a moan, a funny smile or she might just tell you to do it or grab your penis.
No means no. Though it’s not always that a woman actually means “NO” when she says so, but a gentle man should be able to link her words with her body language and act accordingly. A woman’s firm “NO” should be respected as a “NO”, otherwise you will have a rape case to answer to. You would be lucky to escape with just a slap.
Remember that the keyword here is “GENTLEMAN” with emphasis on “GENTLE”, as opposed to some people’s aggressive, libido-driven demand for sex.
You don’t demand sex. You earn it by doing the right thing and making the right moves.
Got get ’em and spread the love.
10 most powerful women in Ghana today
Power comes with great responsibility and with a country like Ghana, this forms of responsibility is most unique and special especially when you are a woman.
With a new government in place and also the change in political power and other developments in the nation, we bring you the top ten all powerful women in Ghana today.
1. Sophia Akufo
Being the second female chief justice in Ghana, Madam Akufo comes up as the most powerful woman and legal brain in Ghana today as she heads the Supreme Court of Ghana thus ensuring that justice is respected in the country.
2. Charlotte Osei
She was one of the most powerful women in Ghana on YEN’s list in 2016 and still is! Madam Charlotte Osei, being the electoral commissioner has overseen one of Ghana’s knife-edged elections which saw Nana Addo Danquah-Akufo-Addo emerge as president of the 4th republic.
3. Rebecca Akufo-Addo
There’s no mention of Ghana’s powerful women without mentioning the name of the first lady, Rebecca Akufo-Addo. She indeed is the power behind the strength of president Nana Addo Danquah Akufo-Addo.
4. Samira Bawumia
Forget the fact that she is the second lady in Ghana as her vicarious campaign messages one way or the other saw the NPP got elected into power. Samira Bawumia knows Ghanaians best and reaches out to them with words.
5. Gloria Akufo
Being the attorney general and legal adviser to the president, Madam Gloria Akufo comes along as the best legal brain which prosecutes and processes major cases against government and the state. Without her, Ghana would be ripped by several legal battles. She has power, real power.
6. Shirley Ayorkor Botchwey
You can’t mention powerful women in Ghana without mentioning the name of the foreign affairs minister. This special minister is the representative of government the world over who makes sure that the foreign policy of Ghana is strictly adhered to.
7. Adwoa Sarfo
Graced with beauty in such a rigorous political atmosphere as Ghana, 35 year-old Adjoa Sarfo is definitely one of the most powerful women in Ghana today considering the fact that she is the only female deputy majority leader in Ghana’s political history.
8. Akumaa Mama Zimbi
You might wonder why we included the name of the sex goddess in Ghana but indeed most of Ghana’s youthful population will never survive with he sexual therapy of this media goddess. With her ‘Odo Ahomaso’ show which attracts millions of viewers countrywide, there is no doubt in our mind that she is an authority in her own right.
9. Barbara Mahama
Ghana came to a standstill when the mob of Major Mahama was announced. Though we still share in the pain of his killing, one person who stood out so strong and powerful is widow Barbara Mahama. Following her gruesome experience, there is no doubt that her words now could move mountains and even shift minds.
10. Ursula Owusu
She is the communications minister in Ghana and what this means is that she has control over what we hear and see and how we hear them. She regulates the media landscape and makes sure that we are never shortchanged or cheated.
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